Are You Special Ops?
The cover story of the February 23 issue of Newsweek was all about stress—the pluses (yes, apparently there are some benefits that can be had from stress), the minuses; who handles stress really well (special ops!), and who not so well, and so forth. Actually, a bit more than I really wanted to know about stress as I tried to figure out whether I was in the special ops group or not. While all the time, yes, you got it, stressing out ever more.
If, for example, you are one of the people who thinks saying “nothing is off the table” as a way to say “no decisions have been made,” please, think again. This is heard as layoffs, salary reductions, loss of benefits, etc., and not “we are trying to be as creative as possible in resolving this situation so that we can protect everyone’s job because we value all of you and the work that you do.”
This is not lying or spinning; it is simply saying the same thing but in a positive reassuring manner.
- First and foremost, watch what you say and how you say it. The English language is a wonderfully rich and vibrant language. We have a great array of words to be sure we give the right message. So craft your messages well.
- Speaking of language, one of the most appreciated rewards for a job well done are expressions of thanks and recognition for a job well done. And it costs nothing! (Unless you want to make a plaque or turn over a parking space to the employee of the month.) According to the authors of the article “Reward Practices and Organizational Performance,” Robert Nelson, in his book 1001 Ways to Reward Employees, noted that the preferred award was praise and appreciation from an employee’s direct supervisor. And the most widely used awards in Fortune 1000 firms were “nonmonetary recognition awards.”
- How about letting folks sleep in an extra hour or so one day and arrive later for work, or leave a few hours early. Or go with flex time if you don’t already do that.
- Cater (with the executive director and/or board paying out of their pockets) a special breakfast or lunch for the staff. Nothing fancy, but a simple show of gratitude and appreciation.
- If you have, as we do, an area wellness center that travels to offices for chair massages, see if there is something you can barter with in exchange.
- Ask staff what they would like as no-cost/really low-cost stress busters. It might be a simple as not answering the phone for an hour, having a book club in the office, doing yoga. You just never know.
